Thinking about getting a dog... any advice?

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I’m really interested in getting a dog, but I want to make sure I’m a responsible pet owner before jumping in. I’ve never had a dog since moving out of my parents’ house about a decade ago. Looking back, my parents were not great pet owners, and I definitely don’t want to repeat that.

Do you guys have any recommendations for books, videos, or just general advice before I start looking into adopting a dog? I’m not in a rush because I really want to be sure I can be a good pet owner. I’m even open to waiting and not getting a dog at all if I think I’m unfit.

I have some pros: I have a stable job with consistent hours, plus friends and family nearby if I need a sitter. I also have plenty of space, since I live in an apartment with a backyard.

But there are some cons too: I’ve never owned a pet, I don’t have a roommate or partner, so it would just be me and the dog. I’m in my late 20s, so I might have major life changes coming up, like moving. IDK if that would stress a dog out.

Any thoughts?

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I think it’s great that you’re thinking this through. A stable job and support nearby are big pluses. Maybe check out some dog training books like ‘The Art of Raising a Puppy.’

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Lane said:
I think it’s great that you’re thinking this through. A stable job and support nearby are big pluses. Maybe check out some dog training books like ‘The Art of Raising a Puppy.’

That book is solid! It really helps with understanding puppy behavior. But what do you mean by ‘training’? Like, how do you even start with that?

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@Harper
Training is all about teaching your dog commands and good behavior. It can start with basic commands like sit or stay. Good to start early.

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Have you thought about watching some YouTube channels? There are plenty of trainers who share tips and tricks about dog care and training.

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Chen said:
Have you thought about watching some YouTube channels? There are plenty of trainers who share tips and tricks about dog care and training.

That’s a good idea! I’ll look for some channels. Any specific ones you recommend?

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@Freddie
I like ‘Kikopup’ and ‘Zak George’s Dog Training Revolution.’ They have a lot of helpful videos.

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Bo said:
It sounds like you have a good setup for a dog. Just remember they need a lot of time and attention, especially when you first get one.

Yeah, I get that. I want to make sure I have enough time for all that. Any tips on managing that with a full-time job?

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Also, think about the breed. Some are more adaptable to changes like moving, while others might have a tougher time. Researching breeds could help.

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Abi said:
Also, think about the breed. Some are more adaptable to changes like moving, while others might have a tougher time. Researching breeds could help.

Good point. Are there specific breeds you think are better for someone in my situation?

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@Freddie
For apartments, smaller breeds like Beagles or French Bulldogs can be great. They usually adapt well, but it really depends on the individual dog’s personality.

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It’s awesome that you’re taking this so seriously. Just remember that patience is key, especially with training and adjustments. Good luck!

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Harley said:
It’s awesome that you’re taking this so seriously. Just remember that patience is key, especially with training and adjustments. Good luck!

Thanks! I appreciate all the input. I’m really looking forward to it, but I want to do it right.