31 year old remote worker that is trying to buy a house. Monthly income after taxes and retirement is taken out is $3,277

Hi everyone! I’m a recent divorcee that is starting over from a living situation perspective. I currently live with my parents, and lawyer fees and other unseen expenses wrecked me this year. However, because of my military experience I have access to the VA Home Loan, and so I only need to cover closing costs. I’ve run the numbers on a prospective budget and I’m trying to determine if the house I am looking to buy is affordable or just out of reach.

My budget so far-

  • Mortgage: $1,187 - $1,260 (based ranging from best to worst case scenario for property taxes)
  • Internet: $100
  • Home Insurance: $108 (Quote from All State)
  • Electricity: $200
  • Heating (Natural Gas): $50 (Will be much higher in the colder months, but electricity will be lower)
  • Water + Sewege (City): $40
  • Car Payment: $206
  • Car Insurance: $152 (Quote from All State)
  • Cell Plan: $92
  • Gas: $100 (Remote worker, I don’t drive a ton)
  • Student Loans: $203
  • Dog Food: $80 (includes tick medication)
  • Groceries: $250
  • Cloud Storage: $11
  • Charity: $45
  • Hair Cuts: $25
  • Clothing: $30
  • Car Maintenance: $30
  • Fun Money: $100

This leaves roughly $198 - $272 left over for emergencies, overtures, and socking away for my emergency fund and home improvement projects. I’ve never lived on my own before, and my circumstances while married we’re financially irregular. Is this margin way too thin? In my area I probably wouldn’t pay much less for a two bedroom apartment. I know this runs afoul of the 50-30-20 rule, but unless I get a room mate or buy a dilapidated house in a dangerous neighborhood I’m not going to achieve that. Is my budget way off base? Is the house too expensive? I appreciate any thoughts the community has!

Buying now could leave you with little savings, and homeownership comes with unpredictable costs maintenance, repairs, taxes, lawn care, and more. Could you stay with family a bit longer, build an emergency fund, or take extra shifts to prepare financially?

So little left over? I don’t even make his “left over” per month before you deduct taxes! Lol. I’m fucked. This sub is so depressing sometimes.

If you’re only making $250 a month you’re not working very much.

Michigan law caps property tax increases at 5% per year, so that’s not a big concern. I’ll have $2,800 set aside for emergencies when I close, and I’m also working on certifications to boost my job prospects and secure a better position.

I would stay living at home until you pay off your student loans and car and have at least $10k in emergency fund. This budget is too tight and even the smallest home/car repair will put you in dire straights.